How does one succeed in life?
08.06.2025 00:37
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Can you tell me something about yourself?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
How do you confront your own family for not inviting you or leaving you out of things?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Do you think cheating is that bad?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Why do the majority of feminists hate men (not all feminists)?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Procrastinates a lot.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
What caused the decline of the Soprano crew?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Who is the most dangerous or evilest person of all time?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Hangs out with loser friends.
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Ask yourself:
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Why do men date women they are not really interested in?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Does not procrastinate.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Why is the covert narcissist actively avoiding me when they see me everyday?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
What I need from you?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
That's it for today.
Living to your full potential is a goal.